It’s an Elegant style, stiff or boring? Should you become a follower of a bunch of rules? Perhaps remove your character and just be this serious stiff ice queen? From my point of view, I find that people get a bit confused about this topic. First at all, they think, have to become somebody they aren’t; and second, that, they have to really lose what’s original about them, what’s fun about them. Just to fit in a kind of stereotype that often is not a reality.
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Elegance is not catching somebody’s eyes, it’s about being remembered
Armani
To me become ‘elegant or classy’ it’s not about losing yourself or even born with a kind of talent. Become elegant is about enhancing your best qualities and get rid of those qualities that really are not helping you too much.
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‘You need to have some form of interesting originality about you‘
You don’t have to invent a kind of character of yourself or try to fit in a flamboyant set. Be elegant but keep your personality.
It’s ok to be funny, as it’s totally ok to have a certain way of being! I hope you enjoyed this new entry, check for more pictures of this outfit on my Instagram account; and see you on my next one!
Tweed Jacket and waist bag from Zara
Vintage little black dress and Loafers
Gambetes box tights and dark sunglasses